I have a question.. to become a grownup, we need to find someone to marry first and then have children. Where exactly does this convention come from? To be parents, does that mean we need to control our child? To be family, does that mean we must force our values onto the kids? RIDICULOUS! Not to understand what children require, ignoring their existence, simply asking them to accept the mainstream opinions, blind believers of the traditional family bible, all these people get out of the way! _Takahashi Yu